i was just rinsing off my dishes from the week, thinking.. and i had a sort of a great thought. in a past relationship, i was expected to be the dishes AND the laundry doer. that seemed hideously unfair. in the future, i hope i don't have to be either, that it can be split up. also, if i'm expected to be any sort of a dishes-doer, we rinse our dishes. nothing quite grosses me out the way that the floaties in the sink do. not that i won't do it, if they're not rinsed, but don't expect me to do it all the way through, and there's definately going to be some gagging. but if you don't mind that..
actually, a good sort of all-encompassing rule:
When i'm gagging, i'm not having fun. Please care that i'm not having fun.