they're always intimidating, i think. i talk about mine a bunch, i know, but it's only for the stories they gave me, that i need to share. i spent so much time of my life with other people, it's a shame to not tell people about it, and i guess it's your fault if you find it something to get defensive about.
not all the stuff i talk about it bad stuff. the bad stuff i share, because it makes a good story, sure. some of the good things (the really good things) i might share have more to do with who i am, and what i've decided are important in a relationship. i had one or two relationships that were great, and i learned a lot from those, too. about the type of person i want to be with. that's actually more important than figuring out who i don't, don't you?
unless a guy gives me reason to think that he wishes i was more like an ex, i'll pay him the same curtosy i ask of him - don't be all jealous, it's not manly, it's cave-manly. thanks for not.