i feel a little bad. i just emailed mike, and told him i met someone really great, and that i've got a good (and full time!) job now, and everything is really busy, but great.. also that i hope things pick up for him on the relationship front, and that i'm sure we could go drinking sometime, if he wanted. it's a little bit of a backhanded dig, or a few all strewn together, and i'm feeling guilty about it now. but then again, he implied some crappy things, and i'm not going to feel ok about them for a long time.