Possibilities

Here's a list of things that might possibly happen, for the weekend. Feel free to Yay or Nay, please, I want things to go well, and for everyone to have as much fun as possible. Also feel free to Yay or Nay the whole idea of an itinerary, some people would get pissed at too much planning. I have a feeling I'm overthinking this whole thing, but it's part of what I do. By thinking too much about it, it makes me feel calmer. I have a feeling you know that already, but I also know that you know that I have to apologise anyways. Anyway, (deep breath), here's what i've got so far for Friday (maybe it'd be easier for you to just comment where you live, lol.. i seem to want your thoughts on every single point):

1. Not stress too much at work.
2. Make my favorite food ever.
3. Busy self with making food and getting ready/looking fabulous, so as to not think too much about the time, or how long it's going to be/countdown. Remember that countdown doesn't help anything, but makes me nervous and anxious. Also remember that anxious = bad.
4. Have someone try the casserole, and have ready a recipe, for if it's considered as good as I think it is, for someone to give to Sr.
5. Go up north, visit mom briefly (as it's my birthday, and she feels bad if she doesn't see me on my birthday). Also, might be the only way to see her this weekend, she'll probably stay up there the whole time.
6. Make our way up to the perfect place. Swim (bring suit!), look at the lake, share it with people (maybe bring lisa?.. maybe not - let me know your thoughts).
7. Make our way back, stop at Schoolhouse (that's the hoodie i prize ;). i love that place). Sometime between now and then, research the statute of limitations on drinking and driving, on the off chance someone gets in trouble.
8. Go out for birthday in town, here. See the different places i haunt, hopefully meet some people I know. Would rather just run into them, than invite them out. This isn't about stress, or forced-compatibility, this is about flow. We're going with it. (again, your thoughts?)
9. Hotel.

Saturday:

1. (Haven't decided what to do until ~5pm, any suggestions? Oooh, maybe go to appleton to Buffalo Wild Wings for lunch.)
2. My best friend Grady's band is playing. He told me that he doesn't expect anyone to be there, because it costs too much for anyone to actually show up. When prodded, "too much"=$10 dollars to get in, and $5 to park. It's sad that he thinks that none of his friends would be willing to pay less than $15 dollars to see his band play, so I sort of really want to go. Can we squeeze this in around dinner? Please let me know. I haven't seen Grady's band (http://www.scorerocks.com/062003/mrslateindepth6-03.html) in a few years, so it would please me greatly (added bonus is probably understood without mention).
3. Dinner (though not baked fish thing, for previously explained reasons).
4. Races, around 10, because you seemed to think they'd be so amusing :).
5. Go out again? We'll have to decide on this later.

I've got nothing but:

1. Stay in bed as long as possible.

for Sunday. Open to suggestions, though.