Here is what i have to say about it now:

there are sides to everyone, and it's amazing when you realize that people are as uncertain as you are, at times. set up with the same situations, good people react in much the same (good human) ways. there are sides to everyone, and those sides are all part of what makes you who you are. don't ever stop being afraid that you're showing too much, and don't ever lose faith in someone out there liking more of you, after they've seen that side.